Your black and white version of ally is not going to work very well in my opinion. You are expecting too much out of human beings. The trans community is going to need many more allies than they have.

Your attitude ensures more division among those who would vote with you, even if they do not speak as you would like them to. Keep in mind, allies are often different, but they have common goals.

Maybe do not accept her as your friend or follow her, but appreciate that she will not vote for Fascists. I respectfully believe you should rethink your position. I do not see a mask with Ana at this point, nor do I see transphobia.