Another great read. I told my spouse when we first started dating that there are only two right answers about your number. 1. It is none of your damn business 2. The complete truth with all the details so you find out quickly who you are dating. Both are fine. I got a hoot out of hearing the number and it turned me on and gave me new ideas for our future. Sex is an appetite. Like all appetites some people have more than others and most people like a variety. Withholding sexual pleasure in Western culture comes from Christianity attempting to control people. It introduced the abusive culture of shame and purity.